I believe that healthy sleep habits make healthy children. Sleep promotes growth, increases attention spans, boosts learning, and beats germs. A well-rested child is curious, energetic, happy, playful, and eager to learn.
When parents entrust me as their child’s “sleep guide,” either through one-on-one consultations or seminars, they are placing a great deal of trust in me, and I want to let you know that I take this responsibility very seriously.
While most books and programs dealing with child sleep issues take philosophical stands (based largely around the issue of “crying it out”), I believe that your child’s sleep is more important than my own personal views on this subject. That’s why my sleep method places so much emphasis on accommodating different parenting styles. The bottom line is that you, as a parent, need to be comfortable with your new sleep plan in order for it to work for your child!
My approach to improving your child’s sleep is simple:
1. I will provide you information about WHY sleep is so important for your child’s well being. This will give you all the motivation you need to make changes to your child’s sleep habits.
2. I will walk you through an easy-to-follow, step-by-step plan that lets you make some choices about what is the right approach for your child. All children are different and nobody knows your child better than you do. I encourage you to use your knowledge of your child to help customize his or her sleep plan.
3. I will show you how to measure success. No, you shouldn’t expect your child to sleep 12 uninterrupted hours on the first night – although it does happen! We will tell you what you should expect along the way!
Do I have to make my child “cry it out?”
A little note about the “crying” question: Since people always ask me about whether my solutions involve “crying it out,” I think it’s something that deserves to be addressed here.
Crying is your child’s way of protesting change, and you can expect that making changes to his or her sleep habits will result in some protest. That is why I always tell parents that my program will most likely involve at least some amount of protest on the child’s part. However, I will never ask you to leave your child to cry alone to cry if that is not something that feels right for you, nor will I ask you to ignore your child’s cries. The reason that my sleep method is so effective is that it lets you develop a plan that you feel comfortable with, based on what you know about your child.
If you have any questions at all about the philosophy behind the Sleep Sense™ Method, please don’t hesitate to ask! I can be reached by email at firstname.lastname@example.org or by telephone at (832) 640-5492.